An acquaintance posted a link to one of her friend’s blogs. I clicked on it, something I don’t normally do, and read one of the saddest things I had ever read. This poor man chronicled his pain at the sudden loss of his young wife, how he told his children, and beginning to cope with the loss.
I went into the suffocating cry. The cry where you struggle to breath because your throat starts to swells. You don’t make a sound, because you don’t’ want others to know you’re crying, but you still continue to cry.
If you lost the one you love, what would you miss the most?
Where does the list begin? Scott fills in my faults and weaknesses. He’s the one that fixes all my technological issues. He’s the one that calls me out (in love) on my social blunders and helps me become a better person. But most importantly, he’s the one I confide in about all my thoughts, concerns, and dreams. He’s my best friend.
Ironically, today would have been my 10 year anniversary, if things had turned out differently in my life. It’s a reminder of how grateful I am to be married to Scott. He’s my equal, and my friend. And I would be lost without him.
1 comment:
It's hard to pinpoint what I would miss the most. Patrick is spontaneous, non judgemental of me but at the same time does require me to be better- something I think spouses should do. He is calm and enjoys my silly sense of humor. I'm glad you and Scott found each other!
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